How to ask the right questions.
I aspired to be the head girl of my school when I was just
in the fifth grade. The position holder was chosen by the Principal, and all of
us had noticed a pattern. The head boy and head girl were the best orators, the
best debaters, the best public speakers from that batch of students. So a
culture of privileging the students who were good debaters developed in our
school. I achieved my dream.
I chose to pursue the liberal arts in college, because it
allows the most room for a critical, deliberative, and questioning spirit. My
decision was based on a genuine love for the subjects of political science,
sociology, psychology, and economics. I often wonder whether this love is manufactured,
a product of the privilege social sciences and debating enjoyed in my school.
But either way, I’m now stuck doing political science honours, and manufactured
or not, I quite like the product.
If you think I can teach you to ask the right questions,
then I suggest you stop reading, because I’m in the same boat as you. In my
quest to learn this art, I ventured into the debating society of our college. I
was instantly awed by everyone’s brilliance and also experienced what an
inferiority complex felt like for the first time. But my resolve to master the
art of critical thinking and debate like a pro stood faithfully by my side.
Quite aware of my inadequacies, I still went for tournaments, lost, but
returned for practice the next day. Am I any good now? No. But am I better?
Definitely.
Somewhere along the line, I started noticing how some people
were ‘naturally’ good at debating, and substantiating their arguments with
enough to convince the other side. It made me ask myself why I’m trying to
develop a skill that I don’t have, while maybe missing out on an unexplored creative
potential.
On other days, I tell myself that no one was born good in a
field, they probably work damn hard to be as excellent as they are. Maybe I
should just read more. But am I trying to develop the right skill? Being intellectually
smart can get you a lot of validation, from teachers, peers, friends, and
family. But so can being the best in any other field.
Which makes me question what my truest passion and desire
is. Sleeping. But even that can get tiring after a while, I swear. I honestly
have no idea. And truth is after this I’ll probably go back to reading that
article on Justice by Maureen Ramsay, like every other sincere student in my
class is doing.
That’s my little rant for today. I know it’s not offensive
or sensational enough to invite emotionally charged comments, but if you go
through these weird quirky thoughts, and feel you’re no longer alone, then I hope
you find some solace in that.
Have a great day!
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